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Glenn Brooke | August 19, 2015 | 4 Comments

Believe That You Have Help – Glenn Brooke

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It’s important for leaders to believe that they have help. We’re constantly at war with something or someone, battling, even if with our own limitations. My Christian worldview gives me confidence that God is always fighting for me, that I am never alone, that I am part of God’s story, and there is a greater purpose to my life. I have friends with other worldviews who are strong leaders because they have confidence that there is a reason and a calling for their efforts to put a “dent in the universe.”

Leaders who don’t believe they have help, that life matters, who feel utterly alone and forsaken… well, they aren’t going to be leaders very long.

Let’s be clear: leadership can be a lonely business. There are times when you will need to stand apart from other people, stand alone in your conviction, or intentionally separate yourself from people. But the thought of being truly, desperately alone is unnecessary and unhelpful.

Leaders who are confident in higher help and purpose still need to be reminded periodically. Richard Halverson said “It is as important to be reminded as it is to be informed.” I recommend you include reminders of the FACT that you have help and the battle is worthwhile in your regular rhythms of work.

Here are some suggestions:

  1. Exploit the power of music! Add songs on your playlist that remind you of important truths and stir your soul to renewed confidence. One of my new favorites is “Open Up Our Eyes” by Elevation Worship.
  1. Set up a recurring task with a quote that inspires you. I have this Teddy Roosevelt quote set to come up Thursday afternoons (almost always a lower energy point in my week):

“It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who neither know victory nor defeat.”

  1. Use pictures that inspire you – either around your workspace or on your computer desktop.
  2. Keep a file of positive notes you’ve received, recognition you’ve been given, major accomplishments. Pull it out and review it for 5 minutes if you’re feeling lonely, discouraged, or momentarily defeated. Remind yourself of the good things from the past to take courage for the future.
  3. Take a Sabbath break weekly.  Take one day in seven away from your normal routines and let that be a regenerative day. Reconnect with God, reconnect with your purpose. The second, the hour, the day, the lunar month, and the year all have an astronomical basis. But the week rhythm comes to us by revelation (hint: it’s how we’re designed). Weekly rest has proven to be enormously important for great leadership.

What other suggestions do you have?

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  1. Erik Tyler says

    August 19, 2015 at 10:20 am

    Go to your “good people” and tell them that you are feeling the way you are feeling. This is hard for leaders sometimes, even to admit it to themselves without rationalization (e.g., “I’m just tired. I’ll be fine.”). I know this is true of me, but I’m getting better at it. I have a couple of people I can call and just say, “I’m feeling all alone out here,” and I know they’ll say, “Come on over and I’ll make you an egg sandwich.”

    At time, my “good people” are also straight out or unavailable for some reason. It helps me to go someplace where I am with people, with humanity, yet not in a way that requires my output (or input into anyone). Work for a while at a coffee shop with Internet service. Go to the gym. Read in a park. Just having other people around can help greatly. The worst thing we can do when we feel alone is to withdraw further in the dark “pain cave” as I call it.

    Thanks for the good “information and reminders,” Glenn.

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    • Glenn says

      August 20, 2015 at 2:52 am

      Erik, I have an acquaintance who likewise takes comfort and energy from seeing people. He has an interesting, specific practice for this when he’s feeling down. He goes to the airport, and sits in the reception area where deplaning passengers emerge, and watches the joyful family reunions that happen there. “Gets me outta my funk every time,” he says.

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  2. Adam Smith says

    August 19, 2015 at 11:37 am

    Great reminder here, Glenn. I like that you point out your own worldview, because that’s what makes you who you are. My own worldview makes me who I am. Although it is important to live life well, without a higher power in the picture, we are all just trying to save ourselves, and that never works. Thankful for having someone to lean on when things aren’t going so well – thankful for grace.

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    • Glenn says

      August 20, 2015 at 2:53 am

      Thanks, Adam. The world is wider and people are deeper than we know.

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