You can easily only be sucked into relationships that get you somewhere, rather than genuinely being bought into a true mentor relationship. I know I have been guilty of this from time to time. If we are limited on time, then those relationships that can get us places and build us up are the ones that we tend to focus on, right?

Here’s why that doesn’t always work…

We become followers of others more often than we invite others around us to be great.

Don’t get me wrong, as leaders we need to be fed because if we keep pouring out into others, then we have to fill ourselves back up. That is why it is so important to spend alone time everyday building our strengths. But, there is definitely the time where we need to build others up. It makes everyone better.

Don’t forget to invite someone else to be great today.

Adam Kirk Smith
Adam Smith
25 Years in Retail, Restaurants & Hospitality · Author · Speaker · Coach

Adam spent 25 years in retail, restaurant, and hospitality leadership — managing teams of 60, growing a store from $600K to $2M+, and overseeing guest experience at a corporate level. Author of The Bravest You (endorsed by Seth Godin). Host of two podcasts. 170K monthly readers. Grimes, Iowa.

4 responses to “What Kind of Relationships Do You Go After?”

  1. Being intentional in relationships is so important. I’m at the point in my life and my ministry where I try to invest in relationships that will grow both parties, not just one. Great post man.

  2. Thank you for the reminder! I am very fortunate to be a part of both a mentor group and a small group that I lead, so I am very blessed to be able to feed others while being fed.

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