Most likely, you’ve done dinner like this before.
Sitting in front of the tv while eating dinner and barely talking.
We do dinner like this a lot.

Lately I’ve been thinking, though.

“What if we did dinner like we used to?”

You know.

What if we turned off the tv and actually sat at the dinner table.
Hold hands and say grace.
Talk about the day.
Those are some of my fondest memories growing up.
Everyone around the dinner table.

What if I really focused on this part of the day?
Really be THERE, not somewhere else.

I’d probably find out something new.

Just a thought.
And a challenge for myself.
And maybe for you.

So, how do you usually do dinner?

Adam Kirk Smith
Adam Smith
25 Years in Retail, Restaurants & Hospitality · Author · Speaker · Coach

Adam spent 25 years in retail, restaurant, and hospitality leadership — managing teams of 60, growing a store from $600K to $2M+, and overseeing guest experience at a corporate level. Author of The Bravest You (endorsed by Seth Godin). Host of two podcasts. 170K monthly readers. Grimes, Iowa.

13 responses to “How do you do dinner?”

  1. Dinner time is often the only time our family still comes completely together. We talk, we laugh, we share, we challenge. It’s good. We have never been intentional about it. It’s just what we do, but now that our kids are teens it feels important to be very intentional about it. Your comment about it being one of your fondest memories spoke to me.nYup we got to keep doing this. We are busy…who isn’t? But it’s important.

  2. My family growing up always did dinner togetheru2026 one of the few moments in the day where that happened. My wife was the same way growing up.nu00a0nSou2026 we naturally do the same thing. We’re not huge TV folks to begin with, so we cherish that time to just talk to each other and our kids.

  3. Even though its just my wife and I, I’m proud to say that we usually sit at the table and talk. Sometimes we leave the Tv on, but we usually have each others’ attention. It was the way I was brought up to….guess I’m lucky to have been able to carry it over.

  4. Growing up I always ate dinner in front of the TV. Probably why I was fat (studies show that you eat more while watching TV).nnWhen I got married my wife had always eaten at the table with the family. I adopted her tradition and I am very thankful for that. There are times (during baseball) we will have a game on, but for the most part we eat together as a family at the table. I love it (except for being kicked continuously under the table).

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