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Leo J. Lampinen | December 25, 2013 | 4 Comments

Servant Leadership: Jesus Washed Their Feet

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If you are a person of faith, then you truly know from reading the Bible that through His words and actions, Jesus was a powerful and influential leader. Through his words and actions he created leaders as a leader. But, what happened after Jesus stood up from the table at The Last Supper shocked and confused his twelve disciples.
 
[box]1 It was just before the Passover Festival. Jesus knew that the hour had come for him to leave this world and go to the Father. Having loved his own who were in the world, he loved them to the end.

2 The evening meal was in progress, and the devil had already prompted Judas, the son of Simon Iscariot, to betray Jesus.

3 Jesus knew that the Father had put all things under his power, and that he had come from God and was returning to God;

4 so he got up from the meal, took off his outer clothing, and wrapped a towel around his waist.

5 After that, he poured water into a basin and began to wash his disciples’ feet, drying them with the towel that was wrapped around him.

6 He came to Simon Peter, who said to him, “Lord, are you going to wash my feet?”

7 Jesus replied, “You do not realize now what I am doing, but later you will understand.”

8 “No,” said Peter, “you shall never wash my feet.”

Jesus answered, “Unless I wash you, you have no part with me.”

9 “Then, Lord,” Simon Peter replied, “not just my feet but my hands and my head as well!”

10 Jesus answered, “Those who have had a bath need only to wash their feet; their whole body is clean. And you are clean, though not every one of you.”

11 For he knew who was going to betray him, and that was why he said not every one was clean.

12 When he had finished washing their feet, he put on his clothes and returned to his place. “Do you understand what I have done for you?” he asked them.

13 “You call me ‘Teacher’ and ‘Lord,’ and rightly so, for that is what I am.

14 Now that I, your Lord and Teacher, have washed your feet, you also should wash one another’s feet.

15 I have set you an example that you should do as I have done for you.

16 Very truly I tell you, no servant is greater than his master, nor is a messenger greater than the one who sent him.

17 Now that you know these things, you will be blessed if you do them.[/box]

So, what can the leaders of today learn from what Jesus did that day?

Jesus washed their feet. The actions witnessed this day are the epitome of servant leadership. Leading requires action and that action is of the service to others. Showing servant leadership means that you have a responsibility to serve your followers. I can understand how this can be hard to grasp when thinking within the realm of a rank or title structure hierarchy.

Servant Leadership: If you are not serving, you are not leading.

It must take a great amount of humility for someone so powerful to kneel before the disciples and perform this act. This should tell us that it isn’t the title or position you hold that makes you a great leader, but it is the heart inspired action you take that makes you a great leader.

It is important to humble yourself, just as Jesus did to have a greater impact. Just imagine the lives that will be positively affected by you taking more heart-inspired action.

When serving is done right, it looks a lot like giving. By serving those you lead, you are essentially giving unto them.

Leaders can mimic the kind of servant leadership Jesus portrayed by:

  1. Paying special attention to the needs of those they are leading.
  2. Losing any thinking that your title or position is too great to be able to do what may seem below you.
  3. Thinking about how those people are affected by your actions. Take it to heart and have confidence in knowing that you had an impact.

This kind of service is selfless. Serving is done without expecting anything in return. This is the most powerful and effective type of service.

The Servant Leadership Challenge

I want you to find at least one opportunity this week to perform a selfless act of serving that positively impacts your family or your team. Think about what Jesus did in the scripture and mimic his action. Do it because you care and expect nothing in return.

Take three minutes and listen to what Ken Blanchard has to say about the two parts under the leadership part of ‘servant leadership’, vision and direction.

 

Are you willing to humble yourself and lead with servant leadership?

Photo Credit: Sergiu Bacioiu via Compfight cc

Daniel Kosmala | December 21, 2013 | 10 Comments

Christmas Change

Christmas Change

 

 

I used to love Christmas. It was easily my favorite holiday of the year.

But I think something inside of me broke in the last few years. The music, which used to get me excited for cold weather and the slim potential of snow flurries, now just annoys me. I get bored and quickly change the radio station to something else whenever I hear Christmas music.

I don’t get excited about Christmas eve or Christmas day, other than thinking about all the great food I get to eat.

Instead, I just dread watching my favorite holiday continue to be warped again and again by our consumer driven culture. The advertisements pining away for our love and affection. The obligatory awkward interpersonal interactions at parties and get-togethers to exchange gifts. The ridiculous amount of money spent on presents.

The holiday I once loved now drains me if I let it.

Why?

I believe it has to do with my continually shifting perspective and focus.

When I was little, all I cared about was all the delicious food I was going to eat (that hasn’t changed), watching the TV specials (Claymation Rudolph and Frosty) and getting more presents than I knew what to do with.

It. Was. Awesome.

I reveled in it. I loved going to see my grandparents and eating cookies while watching “A Christmas Story” for the millionth time. I loved waking up at 6AM on Christmas morning and staring at the ceiling for eons until my parents woke up a couple hours later. I loved playing with my new toys and bragging about them to my friends and family.

I still enjoy watching “A Christmas Story” every year and eating cookies, but Christmas was always about the presents for me. One year before I had much common sense or any semblance of proper manners I remember asking my grandmother if she had only gotten me one present and being disappointed when she said yes. For some backstory, my grandmother has seven children of her own (of which my mom is one), and well over twenty grandchildren. My grandfather died when I was little and she has been buying Christmas gifts for each grandchild for as long as I can remember.

My grandma who goes out of her way to help people, who is active at her church and is one of the greatest encouragers I know, got walked on by little old me. My grandma does an incredible job of believing the best in others even when most people do not, so she continued to love me and let me know how thankful she was for me.

And I was so focused on making sure I got a lot of great presents that I lost all common decency. Instead of being thankful for what I had and what she had done to give me that one awesome gift, I walked all over her.

The focus of Christmas began to shift for me after that day. I was due for a Christmas change.

I would honestly be one hundred percent satisfied if I got zero presents for Christmas and was able to focus all of my energy on spending time with my family. Instead, I now relish sleeping in on Christmas morning. I can only eat so much because I am getting old and I can’t afford to get fat now. I don’t want to brag about the tools I got for Christmas because that is too grown up for me to really even comprehend.

Christmas has really shifted from being all about me to something I want to be about everyone else. If it were up to me, I would never get presents on Christmas. It is too tempting for me to fall back into old habits and to reverse my valuable Christmas change.

It makes me want to focus on what I get and what I didn’t get and what I want and need.

But, what I want to focus on is loving the people around me, serving them, blessing them and making them feel loved. And in doing so in a way that shows, even if just a little bit, how incredibly grateful I am that over 2,000 years ago a teacher was born that changed the world forever.

Without Him, I wouldn’t be where I am today. I wouldn’t be writing. I wouldn’t be a follower of Jesus. I wouldn’t feel the way I do about Christmas. I wouldn’t have experienced a Christmas change. Without Him, my grandmother would not have shown me the grace she did.

[box]I do not ever want Christmas to be about me again. I want it to be about others and how grateful I am for all that I have.[/box]

I never want my grandmother to question my gratitude. I want to make sure she knows how much I love her and how thankful I am that she raised seven incredible and unique children that I can now call my family along with a plethora of awesome cousins. I also want her to know how grateful I am for her continued support and encouragement throughout the years and how thankful I am to have her in my life.

In my mind, there is no better way to honor the birth of Jesus than by showing gratitude and striving to serve others, just like He taught us to and just like my grandmother does every day. I found my Christmas change. 

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Adam Smith | January 7, 2013 | 8 Comments

Passionate: Find Passion For This Life And Be More

Being passionate changes your outlook on life. When you find passion, it makes it easier to complete the task at hand. It makes you more confident because you can talk about what you are passionate about without any hesitation. You know who you are and what you’re about by heart. It’s part of what drives you and makes you who you are.

So, here are the 3 main reasons to find what you are passionate about right now…

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